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Alex Clark & Allie Stuckey Chat The Chosen Controversy, Being A Submissive Wife & Gentle Parenting

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Published 15 Jun 2023

This week, Alex Clark and Allie Stuckey sit down to chat about all the things they usually text about: From gentle parenting to the Duggars, and the controversy over The Chosen, to what Christian women get wrong in their friendships with other women. Pour a cup of tea and join the conversation. Find Allie on IG: https://www.instagram.com/alliebstuckey/ Watch Allie's episode on antidepressants: /watch/ky6cJDxC6HbCc Listen to Allie's podcast, Relatable on Apple or Spotify! Follow Alex Clark on IG: https://www.instagram.com/realalexclark/ All pop culture news can be found HERE: https://www.instagram.com/poplitics/ #alexclark #tpusa #theology #biblical #traditional #marriage #relationships #relatable #friendship #thechosen #culture #popculture #gentleparenting

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    @schootzmootz11 months ago Imagine my shockwhen i saw this, started listening to it, settled down, made my coffee, got all comfy. And then it was done! What? 26 minutes? id="hidden1" we need at least 4 hours of you two talking!
    i loved it! And omg allie articulated every single thought i have on gentle parenting! You ladies are an absolute joy to listen to, and you should do more of these
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    @carinhickey260111 months ago I love allie in this format. Shes so relatable (see what i did there) honest, and approachable. This is an amazing interview. Great job, alex and allie! 57
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    @emilymeow8511 months ago I' ve been struggling within my female relationships (withand grasping for the words to convey to them my deep love & concern for their lives and their souls. This conversation gave me some great ideas, and was truly edifying, thank you. Would love to hear more of you two chatting!. ...Expand 12
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    @sandihull145811 months ago Even though i absolutely love both of your podcasts, this format and interview was absolutely fantastic! You both are so well spoken, and so intriguing. i felt like i was sitting in that room with both of you!. ...Expand 5
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    @BenRebekah11 months ago Loved this convo! We need more of you two talking. 7
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    @sarahcordle300511 months ago Absolutely love this! Could listen to the two of you talk over anything. Please alex, have allie come on the spillover for a full episode! 9
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    @chelseaporche14011 months ago Loved this convo with alex and allie. I always enjoying hearing allies take on life/biblical things. 4
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    @oldfashiondolls6 months ago When you mentioned your problems with the concept ofi did i happy dance! I so appreciate that! I' m sick of it too! 1
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    @kristensmith291111 months ago Loved this conversation so much! I could listen to you two discuss anything! We need more of you together! . 4
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    @janagrote104011 months ago Loved this so much. This should be a semi regular thing! 7
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    @steffa6489 months ago This was so good! Yes need more of these collars and chats! 1
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    @thehomebodypirate11 months ago Loved this so much, i would love to hear more discussions from you two more often! 8
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    @Josiesue4 months ago Finally got around to watching this and i' m not disappointed. This was a really light enjoyable interview with some goodfor christian women to head in our relationships.
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    @lf8012711 months ago Enjoyed this so much! Thank you ladies for chatting and letting us listen in! 2
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    @AnnaWestfalia11 months ago Yes! Pearl does not hold a christian view on marriage. She' s not even married to my knowledge. So she doesn' t even know how a healthy marriage functions. 125
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    @RachelHS82511 months ago Love you two together! Also alex your hair style looks beautiful like this! 5
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    @darcysimental529911 months ago Ahhh so excited to watch this! Two amazing women. 4
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    @daumjess8711 months ago That was awesome. I wished it was a longer episode. 2
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    @laurenthewolf298311 months ago Liked before alex began speaking. I love you both and this is gonna be a talk! 1
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    @cherylknable450811 months ago This was a very interesting conversation, so thanks to you both for discussing these topics. I listened mostly to hear your thoughts on the chosen id="hidden7"
    since this story broke, i' ve listened to a handful of interviews and monologs on this subject, all from various christians. Everyone i' ve listened to has had basically the same response in regards to the pride flag not being a deal breaker. No one seems to address the fact that this particular camera person wasn' t content to just do his or her job on the set without bringing their flag to work. I get it that not maybe not everyone is a christian who works on the set of the chosen. I have a job in the " secular world " too, and i realize that not everyone at work shares my values. But no one there feels the need to fly their flag in my face at work either. As you said, the creator of the series and some of the actors have doubled down on this as well. It' s a shame. My husband and i have watched the whole series that' s been released so far, but this might be a deal breaker for me because of the arrogant, in your face attitude that those involved with the series are showing us. Jmo, for what it' s worth
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    @chelseynelson264611 months ago I always enjoy your conversations with allie! 1
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    @dawnsamantha672811 months ago This was far too short. Fabulous - we need more!
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    @AspenVonFluffer11 months ago Such good stuff ladies! You are the light. 1
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    @jenmessner692211 months ago Totally agree with allie on all she said. So glad she' s speaking the truth about " gentle.
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    @karianned271811 months ago My only critique: should have been longer loved it! 4
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    @1323izzy11 months ago This was so good, and i loved alex' s life jacket analogy. 1
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    @Hopefortheweary11 months ago My two favorite podcasts and ladies! Love you both!
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    @thebonniemonroeshow370811 months ago I seldom agree with allie on things but this was the coolest ive ever heard her sound. This made her sound more human & less extreme. You get a better glimpse into her true self. 2
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    @RebeccaEsmond11 months ago So good - love this! And also alex' s hair.
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    @crystalgivan629611 months ago My two favorite people! Such a good conversation.
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    @santinafreitag81209 months ago This was so good! Do another one together!
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    @allieoneal203311 months ago Christian gentle parenting should have an emphasis on respect and growing the fruit of the spirit. God teaches us through natural consequences, and we . ...Expand 13
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    @pippin316811 months ago I got the same feeling as allie watching shp! By the lineup of commentators alone i knew they were framing it as all christians are bad people. 30
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    @hughesky111 months ago Glad to hear allie step back a little from her previous analysis of the chosen/ dallas jenkins. Personally, i thought it was a very inconsistent take that . ...Expand 2
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    @hannah-mary11 months ago Whyy did i feel like i was chilling with my two big sisters while watching this: o i feel like i know you guys. 2
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    @Dragonfly2023311 months ago It is very interesting that the influence decided not to keep listening to you, however i will say that was my knee-jerk reaction as well. Allie, you have . ...Expand 5
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    @AnnaWestfalia11 months ago Little correction about families in iblp. They did have the gospel. Most of those families are sincere christians. They just had a poor legalistic interpretation . ...Expand 14
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    @deannapickman486711 months ago Huh! We dont have to be taught how to lie, disobey or be selfish. Wow! That was eye-opening, id never thought of that. Im not religious, but i jus id="hidden13"t had an intuitive thought that human nature is bad. This makes so much sense!. ...Expand 7
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    @aubrieweaver230211 months ago I love these women! Ive been dying to watch this video but couldnt find the time until now. Such awesome conservative christian role models!
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    @Destinyirus27811 months ago 100% agree about pearl. As a gen z women whose conservative, christian & anti/ feminist i dont think pearl represents me at all. She gives us a id="hidden14"bad name she doesnt live what she preaches. Shes a hypocrite & shes gone so extreme its like men can do no wrong in her opinion. If a man cheats on you its ur fault legit she said that. ...Expand 34
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    @lmartinez753411 months ago Excellent episode!
    my issue with the chosen is that they chose to put that scene in the promo video. They knew what they were doing. I have no issue with dallas hiring non believers.
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    @heyhayhay711 months ago Loved this style video! Such good topics too. 2
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    @shackledtograce11 months ago Ladies, lets be friends conservative christian from maine and i love and admire you both so much!
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    @ChristieJo11 months ago I still think you guys are missing the issue with Dallas on The Chosen. It was his response that pushed people over the edge. He said he couldn't see why people are upset and if he had known about the flag he's not sure he'd do anything different. But he should absolutely at the very least see why someone would be upset about that. But he made excuses and just won't admit it could have been upsetting to some. And the actors that double downed and pushed away Christians. Ugh! I love The Chosen, but I don't think it will ever be the same for me and I won't be watching it giving them more money. .. ...Expand 7
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    @stephaniesilic544611 months ago Enjoyed this discussion :) I dont think though that the Chosen team made sure they had the pride sticker shown, it was accidental (on a camera mans computer who has worked with them from season 1) in the behind the scenes footage. .. ...Expand
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    @Destinyirus27811 months ago I agree that gentle parenting is a joke & i think thats why kids are so messed up because they are being raised w/ 0 consequences of bad actions. 14
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    @annasmith609011 months ago Btw: there is an happy medium between reformed theology and prosperity gospel. 1
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    @castlekate199111 months ago Thank you for this! Your point on reading the bible and relationships with our christian sisters in christ really convicted me! Ive also felt convicted a . ...Expand
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    @nakuma3311 months ago Love the conversation. I want to say something about the chosen show i think the one thing i don' t think christians are getting or taking seriously . ...Expand 3
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    @DJ-TIY11 months ago I just watched the documentary the other night, and you are correct, it seems they designed this documentary to get the masses to form bias against all . ...Expand 1
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    @josietanner396011 months ago Dallas jenkins has said numerous times since season 1 that he has been told by the holy spirit to share the true and authentic jesus with the world. He . ...Expand 4
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    @pettifoggingpharisee9 months ago I' m sure it was just an oversight that stuckey left out the part on the june 9th dust up with the hillbilly homemaker where she went on a mass block . ...Expand 1
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    @pettifoggingpharisee9 months ago Let' s be clear about the drama that occuppied allie beth stuckey on twitter all day on june 9th 2023 concerning her disagreement with lindsey: hillbilly normally with dissenting opinion, stuckey would either just ignore the comment, mute, block, or do all the above as others on twitter have testified. But this time, it was somebody with a blue check mark that did the unthinkable. With a bruised pride, stuckey replied with her own passively ungracious comment and then tried to gaslight that she wasn' t being snippy.
    well that started a whole show on twitter as people who pointed out that she was in fact being snippy and even pointed to prior tweets as an example or anyone who appeared to agree with hillbilly homemaker suddenly found themselves instantly blocked by her in a behavior befitting of a high school girl, not a grown woman and mother.
    this also resulted in a tirade of unhinged & hysterical tweets by stuckey that was exchanged to the hillbilly homemaker which stuckey made sure to be in full view for her followers to see. It didn' t take stuckey too long for her to flaunt both her cred and ego (i. E. The many message she recieves of how god used her podcast) as she had done in the past on social media.
    anybody who relies on followers and internet traffic understandably will feel stung when someone comments that they will no longer follow you and you see the subtraction in subscribers. The best response in matters like this is simply " i' m sorry to see you go. But thanks for listening and i hope you' ll come back to the podcast in the future. " you would think that stuckey' s publicist background and her testifying before congress would have shaped her into having thicker skin and just leave a response like that.
    for some reason however, a social medialite with over 500k followers revealed that a damaged ego from the disenting tweet by a blue check mark and with a fraction of that many followers too boot was just too much to bare and devoted all her time and resources on one social media platform to passively attack this dissenting voice, including blocking anyone that is remotely associated with hillbilly homemaker. And the intended effect by this action was stuckey' s followers, including white knights (yes even conservatives & christian circles have them) came out to personally attack the hillbilly homemaker to the point of her setting her account to private for awhile.
    this really isn' t just one issolated incident by allie beth stuckey. But even if this was a one-off event, this is still completely unbecoming of her as both a grown christian woman and the very brand that she markets herself as. But at least she was gracious enough to reveal her true personality instead of the theater mask that she puts on for spotify and youtube. I would say its dissapointing, but this was a long time coming for everyone to see what was always contary to the character that stuckey only wanted you to see
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    @Hopefortheweary11 months ago And allie! Please tell me where to find your shoes.
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    @judymartin314811 months ago Its also a problem when a wife always need to ask permission from her husband. This is wherebreaks down. Dr. John gottmans research sho the happiest couples receive similar amounts of influence from each other. When there is a discrepancy in amounts of influence, when men make the final decisions for the couple, divorce rates increase by 700%. ...Expand 1
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    @GratiaPrima_11 months ago Oh wow, about the influencer who called out allie: i could be wrong, i dont know her. But it sounds like shes a baby christian and is a little trigger . ...Expand 5
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    @allisonh031611 months ago My two favorite conservative women. This conversation was fantastic!
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    @Destinyirus27811 months ago Ive always been on the fence about allie cuz she comes off too harsh sometimes. But i do agree w/ some of the stuff she says, i agree w/ her about pearl. P . ...Expand 4
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    @AbbaJoy111 months ago I usually love your research and balance. Today i have a few concerns: 1. Neither of you have watched any episode of the chosen, and you comment on hearsay. 2. You misuse the wordlike so many people do. The term refers to those who believe the fundamental teachings of christianity. It is being misused to refer to the people who focus on outward appearances.
    this particular session, i' m sorry, was more like uninformed gossip.
    3. Could you please tell us whatmeans? I heard the term for the first time a couple days ago. Apparently it doesn' t mean what it sounds like. I' m confused, but i' m not at all informed.
    i think you were trying to figure some things out together, but i' m not sure you were trying to inform your listeners.
    i love what you said about women not sharpening iron. A friendship where that takes place is a treasure! I' ve been in a situation where i' ve thought i could call one friend and she' ll sympathize, but maybe that' s not what i need, and i could call another friend who willme. That' s a valuable relationship to have!
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    @DocPsychoWife11 months ago " fundamentalists are almost always described as upholding beliefs in biblical infallibility and biblical inerrancy, in keeping with traditional christian . ...Expand 2
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    @daveminion620910 months ago For those female christians (esp catholic) who embrace and accept the traditional female roles, esp as wife and mother, realize that by following the ten . ...Expand 1
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    @mamimalista792411 months ago The flag wasnt in the movie, but it was in a promo video that could had been edited. The chose should not be considered a christian show, but only a s . ...Expand 6
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    @annchovey208911 months ago If i hire somebody to perform a surgery on me or build me a house, im going to look at who is the most talented and not whose theology agrees the most w you cannot always hire christians for every position because there are not always christians with the skills needed. Everybody works somewhere where there is a mix of christians andi would love to live in an all christian neighborhood and shop where stores only hired christians but how would i be making a difference if i did?. ...Expand 1
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    @GinKirk725611 months ago Isnit okay and expected for followers of christ to differ? We can still choose to love one another, reason together and learn from each other, cant we? . ...Expand 1
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    @pettifoggingpharisee9 months ago Stuckey didn' t push back on jenkins from her dec 19th 2022 episode except for one time and that was about the mormon loving the same jesus as christians. interesting that stuckey gets no flak for making statements about a show she' s never watched even though she proudly states on twitter the hours of research she' ll pour into a subject (in between all those speaking gigs, photoshoots, interviews, and social media interactions of course)
    even more interesting is dallas telling stuckey that 95% of the bible isn' t in the chosen and that he is inventing whole lores of the christ event and stuckey issues zero push back on this.
    but the hegetsus superbowl ads goes and do the same exact thing and yet stuckey says this: " they sacrifice truth for relevance and in so doing it they offer a jesus that isn' t real. And a jesus that is not real cannot save. "
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    @shelbysutton266311 months ago This is why i could only get through the first episode of shp. Such a grossof christianity. Im sorry. It im not going to listen to takes on why they think christianity is bad
    also can yall regularly do content together? This was my dream interview and it wasnt long enough
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    @annwood81078 months ago This is very good i was gonna say roman: galatians: please ask your guess give the book and verses. Aliie did started doing this, it would be helpful id="hidden35" if your other guess would please started doing that it would be a good witness. ...Expand
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    @daisydupre487310 months ago The best place to learn about how to live is by following the ten commandments it is our god giving law. We have a conscience if is not dead.
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    @connihudson157811 months ago The chosen puts words in christ' s mouth. Huge issue! Thats a deal-breaker for me! 2
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    @kaeleb196811 months ago My initial reaction to the pride flag on the set of the chosen was similar. I was upset and wonder why would they do that? But then i took a step back . ...Expand 8
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    @A_Pie32311 months ago I really liked the chosen at first, but as time went on i became more and more hesitant to watch, and even more on the fence. After this whole flag thing . ...Expand
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    @laurabrune593011 months ago I think maybe you were a little hard on dallas and the show i thought his response was biblically based and charitable, whether or not you agree with h . ...Expand
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    @sabrinasusen746311 months ago I don' t like that the chosen producers sayshowing the authentic jesus" but they distort him. Showing him practicing the sermon? laughing at sin? I think they' ve tried to make light of sin. They show the apostles gambling, drinking, insinuating cheating, etc. And jesus just shows affirmation and like it' s no big deal. So people watching it think " my sin is not that bad and jesus doesn' t judge them. I must be good with where i' m at. " jesus said repent again and again, which is rarely said in the show. ...Expand 2
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    @shannona537711 months ago Re the chosen. It' s not about everyone on set being a believer (for many of us) it' s about pride messaging being left in like a coke can placement for me, it' s like, if you were speaking the message of christ in another language and used a wrong word that distracted folks and confused things. Instead of acknowledging it and fixing it, you insist on using it still. Every time someone goes to watch that video) and apparently other possible bts content.
    maybe if you guys had followed the show you would understand why it is so concerning. It is because the show is so well done. Very moving, very beautiful. It is very influential. Boycotting isn' t about destroying, it' s also about making sure your message is heard. Dallas has said that he has sought to understand. Yet does not articulate that he understands the power images have to communicate and that is a concern to him that it sends the wrong message. It' s baffling and feels like though he has no problem treating the supporters of the show like zealous pharisees, he is tiptoing around something. Like allie said with the mormon topic.
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    @castletokingdom8 months ago For what it' s worth, i don' t think anyone stopped watching the chosen specifically because of the pride flag, or at least most of us didn' t. . ...Expand
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    @laelkap11 months ago Dallas from the chosen isnt going to risk his business by condemning pride. Its not worthy of defending. He is prioritizing his wallet over sending a m . ...Expand 1
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    @StephanieBogart11 months ago The camera operator has worked on the chosen for a long time. As someone who has worked on the set, i saw it and thought oh i guess that guy is gay o id="hidden43"r something. It didnt make me be like i shouldnt be here. Thats ridiculous. Chris who films and edits the youtube videos, did not do this on purpose. He sees the flag every day. You get used to seeing things until theyre almost invisible to you. He has said he didnt do it on purpose and i believe him. Also, instead of being upset that this contractor (is not on the chosens staff) has a tiny flag on his personal camera equipment, pray for him to get saved instead! These people that are upset by it never knew it was there before and they watched the show and loved it. People are also forgetting thats its literally against the law to discriminate based on sexuality. The chosen is not a church nor are they a ministry. They are a tv show. Period. ...Expand 3
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    @pendletwinsong11 months ago Id love to see allie debate pearl. Shes absurd lol.
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    @4imee19810 months ago I had issues with the chosen and their portray of jesus, then they posted a halloween photo and the cherry on the top for me was them mocking the fans first time i heard about the flag but it doesn' t surprise me. To compare the passion of christ with this series bugs me. The chosen present themselves as a christian serie challenging hollywood, the other movie was made in a secular hollywood.
    is like when you ask for a plate and get served another, people were mad cuz they were disappointed. But the director has always shown the show is veryso i don' t understand were the surprise came from. I mean i kinda do, christians tend to be very excited for a christian show very fast)
    second, the chosen is definitely a christians in a band vs christian band situation. Being the former.
    i don' t see why christian productions have to bewhen other business exclude christians for their faith. Is a double standard.
    for me is important in a show with a christian message that the crew is christian cuz they' re the experts on the topic. Sure they can have guest but the crew is aligned with a base and a goal.
    can someone imagine a person being upset that in a cooking tv show the crew are pro cooks and there' s no dancers or singers for inclusivity? That' s how silly it sounds.
    meritocracy yes, and i' m pretty sure there are capable people of faith out there unemployed.
    if it claims to be christian were is their declaration of faith?
    i like that samaritan purse has one for the volunteers, sure they' ll attend anyone in need but they' are guided by those principles.
    idk how is this in english but as the bible says " mi pueblo carece por falta de
    legalism and progressivism hurt people in the church. Both do
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